Episode Transcript
So on this episode, I azalea David Spencer will be speaking about the intimidation that I received from the step siblings. Who my father, who was in care of while we're being blocked from our father.
If you're following this story, my father, Calton Coffie has passed away this year, 2023 in February. I found out in April, and I did what I could to get more information from it because, my siblings and I have been blocked for a very long time from our father. And when I say block Strategically just led us straight because we were younger while everybody else were was an adult in this matter.
So the advancement of the brain, not knowing for what it was until it's happening. When you're an adult, you see it for what it is. And if you're going to the Facebook page, justice for Calton Coffie, you can definitely see the messages, the intimidation. Speaking of intimidation, I'm talking about after knowing that our father has passed away.
I went ahead and did my own research and investigating, trying to get answers, and all I've been getting is responses of no compassion at all. Reaching out to them, reaching out to my cousins on our side, my father's side of the family, questioning why are we. Questioning his death. Why are we even trying?
This is what has been put out. Almost be quiet. We got it from here when they're not even family. Okay. When I got a middle finger emoji back from one of the stepsisters, I'm asking, Hey, how come nobody told us about my father's death? Middle finger, straight to my face? If that doesn't tell you something about somebody, then I don't know.
I have never lost anybody in my life until now. I am 40 years old, June 18th, 2023, and then my nerves are shattered. Why? Because these are people who have watched over me when I was younger, step siblings, and for them to act like nothing has changed. It's very intimidating because I have changed, I've gone through so much.
My siblings have gone through so much. We grow and we come to understand things. Now my fiance has been getting intimidation. My cousins have been getting intimidation. There have been people reaching out in dms blocking me posting pictures of my father. This has got to stop. This has got to stop now, but we got it from here.
Trust me.
Like when I say intimidation, there's levels to it. Intimidation can come in many ways and forms, and I saw it for what it was after my father's death because no one has said anything to my brother or my sister , and I, I saw it in other ways. I've been posting videos Of my father music, clips of my father, just paying natural homage to my father.
That's my father. I big him up on an everyday, yearly basis. That's my guy. That's what I do. I do music. I'm into music. He's like a hero to me somewhat. No matter what we've gone through personally as family, his. Accolades, his efforts, his everything supersedes that to me. And that's cool. That's what family does.
What family doesn't do is, hate, I can't put it in a better word. You don't hate, we're dealing with copyright infringement, intimidation, where it's like I was never getting notified from any social media site about me posting my dad's music or pictures until after his death, which means that it's coming from the estate.
People that are over there mismanaging his royalties, mismanaging his. Image mis mismanaging, his personalities, everything. I've never gone through that. And last month or two months ago, I believe the first month of it all, as they're finding out they're them being the other side of step siblings, and I'm pretty sure somebody's over there.
Just mismanaging his I want to say synchronization royalties maybe, or streaming royalties. Because now I'm seeing messages like, Hey, you're not allowed to post images like this, or, and I got blocked. And if you go to the Facebook page justice for Carlton Coffee, you can see The screenshots of the actual messages from Facebook, Instagram, that my sister had to go through.
I went through it. I'm like, that's crazy. I've always posted pictures of my dad, and my dad passes away. I put his picture up as my profile picture and I'm getting blocked. My fiance also got some intimidation from the stepson. Without going too much into it. He's in a place in a spot where he shouldn't be at.
Reaching out to my fiance, he doesn't even know, and he hasn't even reached out to me and said, Hey, sir, about your father. This is a lot. This is a lot. And he deserves some answers and some questions in the truth behind what's happening right now behind this Grammy Award-winning artist. My father, Colton Coffee.
As a child, you make mistakes. And depending on the parenting how you learn from these mistakes. I feel that's an I feel statement and all these things, like I feel statements I had to learn through therapy, speak from the I, so I feel as though the way I learned from my mistakes from my father was very Extraordinarily different from how I've seen other parents handle their children mistakes.
And so with the influence of the people, like his spouse and the step-siblings, it changed over the years. And I feel like my mistakes became almost like a barrier. And the intimidation came through that as well. You know what I'm saying? Where it's like, They would do things under his nose right in un in his house and, turn the blind eye to, and so anyway, keep none of my mistakes.
It was more like I. Judgment day, and so growing up that becomes a little bit like a trauma maybe, because now you still make mistakes. You get older, you still make these mistakes. But then you always go back to that times, oh man, if I did it differently, or if you remember what your parents told you about you shouldn't do that.
Or This is what happens when you do that, this will happen. And, you start replaying and you, and it's not necessarily like that, especially when you get older. You know what I mean? There's ways of learning with your, from your mistakes and not. Feeling in intimidated by your trauma. And so these siblings, step-siblings of ours have known this.
They're adults. They've always been adults. They've used that to get a up one, to use it as leverage to, to strike fear, is everybody's big on fear. Selling fear and fear this and never, not anymore. We saw the intimidation where I'm celebrating my father's death. I don't even know what I was what family was trying to do.
And they're coming in saying, we shouldn't do that. We shouldn't do this. We go social media posting pictures of our father, and you're saying, nah, you shouldn't do that. That's what they're saying when they contact Facebook. Who are you? You're not even blood, you're not even family. You're not even part of a table.
You never were part of a table. You're not grassroots. You contact my fiance, the stepbrother, from a situation where he shouldn't be doing that. It's a lot. It's a lot. It's almost creepy. Everything feels creepy. Mystic, cryptic. Everything feels dark. It doesn't feel right. It still doesn't feel right now, and we need some answers.
